Believe it or not, I only wash my daughters hair about once a month. I try to keep my hands out of her hair so often. Make sure you create a wash day routine that works best for you. If you feel the need to wash more often, consider trying a co-wash like EdenBodyworks Coconut Shea Cleansing Co Wash. Co washing gently cleanses the hair while also adding moisture without stripping away the natural oils from the hair.